Read a very interesting article in 'The Guardian Weekend' about love & marriage here's an excerpt:
"Now it's not my belief that love is either there or it isn't. Love is something that can be developed and cultivated.. it was systematic, strategic. One of the things I learned was that I needed to hold back. Because to tell the other person how you feel too early on is dangerous. Most people just do what feels right, but I've always been very interested in what makes love sustainable. marriage is something that is not perfect but it's permanent. I've realised how fragile love is. You've got to protect it and think about it it. Because it's more than a feeling. It's also a choice.."
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Agree?
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yes i agree with the article
ReplyDeleteBut in some way i disagree !
Love is not a choice . . you cant help who you fall in love with and to push it away is pure insanity . . all i can say is embrace every minute of it and its true love is very fragile.
It is best to go with the flow and when needed protect what you have
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Yeahh I see your point - though some do push it away so for them maybe its a kinda choice but yeahh Treasure it, sustain it
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I agree with the article to a certain extent.
ReplyDeleteBut sometimes love is instant. Like when you see your soulmate for the first time, and you just know they're the one,
Love is fragile.
True and unconditional love is the most delicate thing on earth.
If you find your soulmate, live every moment with them as if it were your last, because that forever is an illusion, and one way or another circumstance will find a way to tear you apart, and still you will never stop loving them.